Rome was not built in one day!

How many of you have faced a real failure?

And a real failure would be something as simple as failing to wake up at 5 am every morning even though you have 10 alarms at different locations in your room (that’s my story btw) and yet you sleep under it or failing to pay your bills every time (nope that’s not me, I am quite serious about it) and ruining your credit, failing to study for an exam each day until you have only 5 more hours to do so (I have done this one, so many times), but knowing very well the consequences of it why do we always allow it to ruin us? We strive to become something in life and yet due to our actions that we do knowingly or unknowingly, we end up becoming something we never wished for and that would be the ultimate failure.

Sometimes people blame themselves, sometimes destiny and stupid are those who blames others. But I always tend to blame no one. Because what good will do blaming?

I think it is a waste of time. The most important thing from everything is the feeling of guilt and responsibility. I was once upon a day studying with a spirituality group and we were discussing that why people feel guilty and is it good or bad? I channelised my thoughts and remembered what has happened whenever I felt guilt? I have said words like I am sorry, and I would become a changed person, I would work positively, I wouldn’t repeat my mistakes, I would promise myself to do it better this time. This is the normal effect of it, that you allow yourself a little bit of introspection, you may still fail, and that is the only flaw of it, but eventually one day you won’t. After losing my house keys for twice in 2.5 years and after constantly fearing that I have lost it again even though I would find it deep down in my back pack. I would panic and slowly my guilt has trained me and made me so confident that even if I through my keys on the sofa I would remember at the end of the day that its there on my sofa, this is how I have overcome the art of forgetfulness.

Doing mistakes, repeating it and feeling how it affected you is how you go through the process of changing it, thats the one thing I have learn you can not change overnight, nothing ever happens over night, you are responsible for some things that has happened timely.

I have seen a lot of failures myself, and the worst one for me was celebrating something for someone else, knowing very well that I would be at the same place soon, I couldn’t feel more happier however one day when I was told that no I cannot be there. I felt like I lost my self confidence. I lost me. I gained myself back after realising why it happened whatever it happened. Some failures we can never explain. They have destructive powers. And not everyone has a support system that they can rely. I was lucky to have one, I always had one. But sometimes more than the support you need you.

You and your inner self is the best support you can ask for. Trusting yourself and your abilities, constantly try to achieve what you want, do something about it, create chaos, be alert, be active, just be you.

And after all, Rome was not built in one day. Start the work “Today”